New Canaan High School Boys Lacrosse History
**Many Alumni have contributed to helping write this history (a big thank you to Chip Murray, class of 2008). It is by no means complete, please contact us if you would like something added or edited - go to the Alumni registration page**
Lacrosse first took the field at New Canaan High School in 1973 on a club basis coached by an English teacher, Mr. Dave Maier. Coach Maier took thirty-five enthusiastic and inexperienced players and blended them into a team with a first-year record of 4-1.
Over the summer of 1973, the school was interested in hiring a teacher who could help develop a lacrosse program. Neighboring town Wilton already had varsity lacrosse beginning in 1969.
The school hired Howard Benedict as an English teacher, and as the school’s first varsity lacrosse coach. Benedict would become the winningest coach in Connecticut lacrosse history. Benedict grew up in Fairfield, and graduated from Fairfield Prep in 1963. He went on to Lafayette College where he majored in Philosophy and played varsity lacrosse, graduating in 1967. Prior to coming to New Canaan, Benedict taught English at Notre Dame of Fairfield and at a high school in Vermont, where he was also a coach.
In the spring of 1974, Benedict was able to encourage nearly 100 boys to turn out for the sport as New Canaan fielded its first varsity and junior varsity teams. On April 4, 1974, Benedict and the NCHS program got off to a positive start with a 7-3 victory over the Hopkins School. The team finished the year at 10-9. 1974 was the first year that a Connecticut Lacrosse State Championship was held. In that game, Wilton defeated Conard 9-4.
In 1975, the team showed progress. On April 29th in Wilton on a muddy field, the Rams found themselves tied 8-8 in the third quarter, in part due to a great performance by goalie Kent Lowe. Wilton pulled away winning 11-8, but the team started to believe they could beat Wilton.
In 1976, just the third year as a varsity program, New Canaan defeated Wilton. In front of a packed sideline on the field next to the football field at Saxe Middle School, Carl Nissen (Princeton), Tim Tuttle (OWU), Andy Sigler (OWU), Glenn Vivian (Hobart) and Mike Jiambalvo led the Rams to an improbable upset. Following a goal by Nissen, Wilton’s coach was heard yelling “he’s all righty, make him go left!” On the ensuing faceoff, Nissen cleanly popped the ball up, raced toward the restraining box righty, wound up, switched to his left hand and breezed one in. As time expired, the winning goal was fired in by Matt Diserio.
The 1976 team produced New Canaan’s first All-American player. Carl Nissen, a two-year captain attackman, earned the honor and went on to play at Princeton University. Nissen was a three-year starter for Princeton and played in the USILA North-South Game as a senior. He also coached at Hobart College from 1981 to 1984 before going on to becoming a sports medicine physician and professor at the UConn Health Center.
Coach Benedict was named CT High School Coach of the Year in 1977.
Wilton was way ahead of New Canaan, having established a youth program in 1971. In order to grow the sport in New Canaan, and compete with Wilton, Benedict helped found the New Canaan Lacrosse Association in 1979. Early on he was assisted by Tony Tsocanos and Dick Van Hasteran. Coach Benedict’s brother, Jonathan, a Fairfield County State Attorney, drew up the non-profit incorporation papers.
The first ever youth lacrosse game between New Canaan and Wilton actually occurred two years prior to the NCLA forming. In the spring of 77’ – a team of mostly 4th, 5th & 6th graders, played one game vs Wilton. New Canaan won 7-5. Andy Towers played as a 2nd grader! Years later, those youth players would combine for 5 state championships playing for NCHS (80’s decade).
In the late 1970s and early 1980s one of the purposes of NCLA was to support the high school program. In addition, the NCLA was founded to help provide another alternative to hundreds of New Canaan kids for participation in an organized sport. Coach Benedict said that, “The Association’s goal is to build a youth organization which teaches fundamental skills and builds individual and team pride. Before long, with your help, lacrosse sticks will become as popular as baseball bats.” Benedict opened the youth program to surrounding towns that did not have their own. For instance, many of the best Darien players in the 1980s and 1990s played their first lacrosse at Saxe Middle School.
The original NCLA board consisted of Benedict as the Program Director, Tony Tsocanos as President, Peter Morris as Vice President, Dick Van Haasteren as Secretary/Treasurer with board members including Mike Carney, Tony Dunn, Frank Frederiksen, Mike Hobbs, Tom Towers and Dick Zarnik. Meetings were held monthly at the high school
The New Canaan v. Wilton game of 1978 was a big draw, as both teams were in the hunt. In a muddy game at Wilton, a hard hit on the sideline sparked a bench clearing brawl. Wilton prevailed in the contest and the rivalry grew more intense.
In 1978, Glenn Vivian was named New Canaan’s second All-American. He went on to Division III powerhouse Hobart where he won the prestigious “Francis L. Kraus Memorial Award” for leadership, sportsmanship and scholarship. Also from the 1978 class was Darren Lawlor. Lawlor became an honorable mention All-American defenseman at Syracuse, where he helped lead the team, as captain, to their first National Championship. In that game Lawlor went “coast-to-coast” and scored on Larry Quinn to ignite a six goal comeback against Hopkins.
In 1980, Bill Sperry (Williams) was voted HS All-American, as was Jim Fitzsimmons in 1981. Other notable players from this period were Tim Tuttle ‘78 (OWU), Derek and John Hoffman ’78, Don Moyle ‘78 (Lehigh), Wade Melton 79 (Adelphi), Mark Tsocanos ’80 (Lafayette), Steven Schmitz ’80 (Lehigh), Tim Sommers ‘81 (Army), and Jim Berry ’81 (UNH). The Connecticut Senior North-South All-Star Game in 1980 was held in New Canaan. David Allison, Bill Sperry, Steve Schmitz and Mark Tscanos all played for the south. Benedict assisted Norwalk Coach Randy McCue coaching the south team. Benedict was named CT High School Coach of the Year again in 1981.
Around this time, Coach Benedict organized the first Connecticut lacrosse camps with visiting NCAA stars. The first camps included Hall of Famer’s like Eamon McEneaney (Cornell), Mike O’Neil (Hopkins), and Dick Scalise (Adelphi/Harvard) in addition to legendary Cornell Coach Richie Moran, Yale Coach Mike Waldvogel, and Harvard Coach Bob Scalise. New Canaan Lacrosse Association Chairman Mike Carney, and Carl Nissen (who was an assistant at Hobart) also helped coach. These camps were open to all of Fairfield County and helped spread skills throughout the area. Coach Benedict was the first Camp Director for the New Canaan Sports Council. An article in the New York Times published August 31, 1980 explained how emerging groups, such as the NC Sports Council, were supporting public school athletics. It noted how New Canaan was unique in having Ivy League coaches attend their camps, “But when pressed about the secret of luring these coaches, townspeople shrugged their shoulders and said, “Howard Benedict.” The lacrosse coach simply calls a lot of coaches and manages to cajole them into taking time out of their busy summer schedules.”
Benedict insisted on the inclusion of girls and started the first girls’ camp with Carol Kleinfelder, the Harvard Women's Coach.
Benedict did the same on Nantucket. He was the first person to organize camps and clinics on the island in July and August.
1982 was a pivotal year for New Canaan Lacrosse. Benedict led the Rams to both FCIAC and State Championships, defeating Wilton numerous times. The team was led by senior captains goalie Chris Zarnik, midfielders Tom Arrix, Tim Vivian and attackmen Chris Curry and Pat Burke. All five captains, in addition to senior defenseman Bill Kemp, were named All-FCIAC. Arrix and Burke were named All-Americans. Arrix was a two-time honorable mention All-American at the UNH, while Burke went on to play at Maryland.
New Canaan continued the 1982 success and defeated Wilton in the FCIAC Championship in 1983. However, in an overtime thriller played at Staples High School, New Canaan fell to Wilton in the State Championship. Among the many stars on the 1983 team, Boyd Harden stood out, named an All-American his senior year, Harden went on to become a star defenseman at UNC, where he became the first New Canaan Player to be named 1st team All-America in college (1988). Tom Towers, also from the class of 1983, went on to earn honorable mention All-American at Brown.
In 1984, the team would reach the FCIAC and State Championship games. Unfortunately, Wilton would win both games. The team was led by seniors Paul Burke (W&L), Jason Cooper (Duke), Randy Bansak, and Bill Ross.
In 1985, New Canaan fell to Wilton in the FCIAC Championship, but ended the season in a pile with a State Championship win over Wilton. The team was led by seniors Joe Defrancesco, Jim Bastone, Rookie goaltender Kevin Theissen not only played outstanding, but predicted the score. This was a New Canaan Team that upset a Wilton team who had 5 All Americans, NC had 0, but NC played as a team. In addition, this team had 10 sophomores contribute / start over the course of the season.
The only loses that the 1986 team endured was a home 10-13 loss against Yorktown to end the regular season and a 5-6 loss to Wilton in the FCIAC Championship. Chris Arrix was the hero in overtime during the state semi-finals against Fairfield Prep. The team rallied and defeated Wilton 10-6 for the State Championship. They were led by captains Chris Arrix, Reid Campbell, Matt Kelly, and Kevin Theissen.
1987 Team